But, today isn't just about Halloween.. at least for her. She tested out on her yellow belt. The instructor was given 7 or 8 students to test today but this time they were all different belts! This translated into a combination of a very long class and alot of down time for her. She didn't behave through the whole class but at the end of class the instructor told her she needed to put all that playing and all those little things she thinks of in a box. This box she needs to keep at home so she can dance and play at home all she wants but focus in Tae Kwon Doh.
But in the end she did pass her test for yellow belt and the instructor needs a special belt for him. She was not the worst behaved in this group of children that he's trying to test. It was hard for him and I REALLY, REALLY hope this instructor stays on. There is a chance he might not.
Anyway, it finally let out and my son, who left his phone in the car so it wouldn't disturb the class, picked it up and called someone.. you know who. He got voice mail and left this message, "I left my phone in my mom's car but I think it's pathetic you couldn't make it." and hung up. Nothing more.
Chances are he will be here with the mother to trick or treat.. my husband doesn't want her here. Ever. She's not someone we trust. He's been around too many drug addicts to not trust anyone around the house or where those things that we make a living with are here.. and trust me.. this includes his own children. He won't change that just because others think it's fair to the Kiddo.
My daughter is having a halloween party and I'd like to go but kids will be trick or treating and she lives an hour and a half away.. We can't be in two places at one time. I'd rather be at her house!!! To those that come here and read these regular updates.. I do so hope you have a happy halloween. It's just not the same to me anymore. I miss having my kids here and making costumes, trick or treating and making jack o lanterns. I miss all of that!