Do you know what your child does on the computer? You ... should.

I know there are many that might point out that it infringes upon your child's right to privacy. In fact, your child might argue that point. If so, hand them a diary and a pen because there is no privacy when you post pictures, information or anything about yourself in a public forum..online.

I cherish the right to privacy but I cherish my children more. I believe it is our duty as the adults online, as parents, as friends to take away a privilege that isn't being used with some common sense. I believe, our children are far more trusting on here than we'd like. But you can't see who is on the other computer. You can't peek through the moniter and know if that 14 year old your child is talking to is really.. 14.

MySpace.com has been on the news alot the past few days following the death of a girl that apparently met with one of her "friends." I don't know the whole story I do know.. a young girl is gone. But it isn't only MySpace.. it's anywhere we can post, build a network of friends that we never see, chat, email.. anywhere and we as parents are entrusted with the safety of our children. We have to be their guide through this because it's cool to do this and see that people are interested. Their judgement is not as wise an adults. Online there is no such thing as privacy.

Before I clarify this allow me to point out that I think these places are GOOD for us and for our children. They, like us, do find commarderie on here. Something that encourages them to read and write no matter how brief. Especially the blogs. I know, I like coming here and writing if others feel it important enough to read. If you all encourage me, I can't imagine how good it makes the kids feel. So, yes I do think it's good for our kids to do this. I just believe whole heartedly in monitering and keeping them safe.